Anonymous said:

I've been with him for months and months now, and I'm so totally in love - we've never met irl as we live in different countries. We argue often, they are mostly my fault as I have anxiety and tend to worry about everything and anything. But what bothers me is after a big arguement he will tell me he has fell out of love with me, and it's happened like 5 times now, I have no clue what to do.. We normally just keep talking till he 'falls' back in love. But it hurts so much, what do I do?

As I see it, that’s not okay for him to do. You dont fall in and out of love that easy. At all. And honestly. I dont think he really loves you

Anonymous said:

I've been with him for months and months now, and I'm so totally in love - we've never met irl as we live in different countries. We argue often, they are mostly my fault as I have anxiety and tend to worry about everything and anything. But what bothers me is after a big arguement he will tell me he has fell out of love with me, and it's happened like 5 times now, I have no clue what to do.. We normally just keep talking till he 'falls' back in love. But it hurts so much, what do I do?

As I see it, that’s not okay for him to do. You dont fall in and out of love that easy. At all. And honestly. I dont think he really loves you

Anonymous said:

I've been in a relationship with this guy (he lives in Italy, I live in England) for months now, I would say about 6 or 7 months. I'm completely and utterly in love with him, and I've never been in love before. Everything's great though.. Except that he's 18 (I'm 15) And he's okay with the age difference but I keep thinking about it, I have no doubts about our relationship but I need advice.. Is our age difference okay? Or should we wait?

how you feel about each other is more important than two numbers will ever be.

Anonymous said:

I've been in a relationship with this guy (he lives in Italy, I live in England) for months now, I would say about 6 or 7 months. I'm completely and utterly in love with him, and I've never been in love before. Everything's great though.. Except that he's 18 (I'm 15) And he's okay with the age difference but I keep thinking about it, I have no doubts about our relationship but I need advice.. Is our age difference okay? Or should we wait?

how you feel about each other is more important than two numbers will ever be.

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This beautiful man? He’s made me the luckiest woman in Korea. In the US. Hell, no matter where we go, I’ll forever be the luckiest person as long as he’s with me. Sure, we haven’t been together for very long and sure, we’ve only been apart for a little under two weeks, but since when does the time spent with someone dictate how much you’re allowed to miss them?
We met while I was working at Subway, of all places. The first time I saw him, I got so nervous that my hands started shaking and my knees went weak, and I actually dropped the sandwich knife onto my foot. I thought about the “Hello” he said every single day until I saw him for the second time. I made the biggest effort to come off cute and mysterious in the hopes that he’d ask for my number. Again, he didn’t and I didn’t see him for another week - Christmas Eve. An hour before I got off, he came in and made small talk, yet still didn’t ask for my number. Embarrassed, I turned to leave after he paid for his food, but he lingered for a minute and, in the quietest whisper, asked for my number. The elation I felt was beyond incomprehensible. We had our first date a couple days later, and since then, I’ve found myself falling so much in love with someone I never thought would be anything serious. Every day, he manages to surprise me with his beautiful quirks, his little secrets, and incredible dreams. Dreams for his future, and ours. Like any couple, we fight - we fight hard. We have our ups and downs, but at the end of the night, we love harder and overcome anything that comes our way. Falling in love with each other was a journey, something that made us cry, scream, hate each other, and want to run away so many times, and still, it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world getting to this point and knowing that we worked hard to make things work between us because giving up on each other knowing that it’s worth it would have never been an option.
After four months together in Korea, after four months of dealing with racism from my family and strangers alike, I left to start the first leg of our lives together in California while he finishes his duty station in Korea (9,300 miles away) before coming back to me. It’s only been a short while since I’ve been gone, but it’s the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with in a long time. I know it’s going to get harder, but we’re willing to deal with it and overcome it with a ferocity that will make these next five months fly by like nothing. And now, I’ll be flying out to meet his family in Pennsylvania for the first time in a couple weeks!
We can do it. Anyone can. If you love harder than the distance between you, anything is possible. Keep your chins up.
Anonymous said:

legit basically live in the same places as your last anon and their partner. my bf is in sydney, i'm not in, but am right next to nyc. we've been together two years, and anon I promise the kilometers don't matter. Cherish his voice and the sound of his sleep because it will get you through each day, and each day you'll be closer to being together in person. And those moments just I mentioned will make the miles seem to disappear even when you're far apart, i promise.
Anonymous said:

legit basically live in the same places as your last anon and their partner. my bf is in sydney, i'm not in, but am right next to nyc. we've been together two years, and anon I promise the kilometers don't matter. Cherish his voice and the sound of his sleep because it will get you through each day, and each day you'll be closer to being together in person. And those moments just I mentioned will make the miles seem to disappear even when you're far apart, i promise.
Anonymous said:

I live in Sydney, Australia and he lives in NYC. We skype every night before he goes to sleep, because he says it sounds like I'm there next to him, but it's not really, is it? We're still 10,000 kilometres apart..

Skyping is really the closest thing any of us have, cherish it! 

Anonymous said:

I live in Sydney, Australia and he lives in NYC. We skype every night before he goes to sleep, because he says it sounds like I'm there next to him, but it's not really, is it? We're still 10,000 kilometres apart..

Skyping is really the closest thing any of us have, cherish it! 

a-disorderly-disorder said:

My name is Liz and I am in a long distance relationship. Alisha lives in Chicago and I live in the eastern part of Canada. It sucks, but we're making it work. Anyways, I'm sending her a letter with cute things in it... but I don't know what to send. It can only be an envelope, so I can't put clothing in.. I just want to make it special, I guess.

friendship bracelets are always fun and inexpensive! You can find tons of patterns online and usually buy string cheap at a local craft store, even Walmart. On your handwritten letter spray your perfume, give it a kiss with lipstick. Maybe send some old goofy photos of you as a kid. You could make a keychain with the miles between or your anniversary date with beads, also inexpensive. Whatever it is, let it come from the heart! followers any other tips/advice?

a-disorderly-disorder said:

My name is Liz and I am in a long distance relationship. Alisha lives in Chicago and I live in the eastern part of Canada. It sucks, but we're making it work. Anyways, I'm sending her a letter with cute things in it... but I don't know what to send. It can only be an envelope, so I can't put clothing in.. I just want to make it special, I guess.

friendship bracelets are always fun and inexpensive! You can find tons of patterns online and usually buy string cheap at a local craft store, even Walmart. On your handwritten letter spray your perfume, give it a kiss with lipstick. Maybe send some old goofy photos of you as a kid. You could make a keychain with the miles between or your anniversary date with beads, also inexpensive. Whatever it is, let it come from the heart! followers any other tips/advice?

Hello fellow ldr loves, My boyfriend and I recently became a ldr. (I even had to teach him what ldr stood for!!) Its been tough on the both of us and we’re getting used to it. The distance may not be extreme but as we all know, any distance is enough to make it hurt a little. We recently made an Instagram for our relationship and would love the support! The username is : @cv_to_sf
Thanks so much! xoxo

Anonymous said:

Next week I go to see my boyfriend for the fifth time. He lives in NY state and I live in the UK. Last time I passed through Philadelphia airport, I was kind of grilled on the spot at immigration and passport control. The officer said that because I had been visiting so often (once every 6-8 weeks, for approx. 6 nights each time), officials would start to think I was trying to move there and just turn me away next time I visit. Now I'm PETRIFIED of being refused entry - any advice? I'm scared.

Take a deep breath. It will be okay, I personally have never dealt with international affairs. I would bring proof that it is just a visit. These girls are an international ldr and might be better able to answer your question. I hope everything goes smoothly! Sorry I couldn’t be more of a help! 
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Anonymous said:

Next week I go to see my boyfriend for the fifth time. He lives in NY state and I live in the UK. Last time I passed through Philadelphia airport, I was kind of grilled on the spot at immigration and passport control. The officer said that because I had been visiting so often (once every 6-8 weeks, for approx. 6 nights each time), officials would start to think I was trying to move there and just turn me away next time I visit. Now I'm PETRIFIED of being refused entry - any advice? I'm scared.

Take a deep breath. It will be okay, I personally have never dealt with international affairs. I would bring proof that it is just a visit. These girls are an international ldr and might be better able to answer your question. I hope everything goes smoothly! Sorry I couldn’t be more of a help! 
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Sophie & Sam

Hey there!

My name is Sophie and I’m in a LDR for almost 2 years now. I met my love in summer 2011 in my holidays in Egypt. His name is Sam and he is just the most amazing man in the world!! We love eachother so much and work both hard for it to make it work. Since we are a couple we are fighting against many prejudices. My family and my friends here in Germany think very bad about egyptian men. They told me to stop keeping contact with him and they didnt want to give us a chance to meet again. But we kept contact secretly. Had Skype dates, long phone calls, talked in Facebook so we made it work! And we both worked harder, saved money and after my 18th birthday I finally was able to buy a flight ticket to Egypt! Yeah. We really didn’t believe that we could fiiiiinally see eachother again against all the obstacles and prejudices. And in february 2013 so before few weeks I was with him in Egypt! It was the most beautiful time for us and the feeling to be back in his arms can never be compared to anything else. It’s just where I belong! So the time passed too fast and I had to go again back to Germany and there my family who were all really upset waited for me. But they saw that I was happier than ever before and they gave me a chance to show them pictures and videos of Sam and me. And they really understood that we are in love. That he doesn’t want my money or a visa to leave Egypt (he never asked me for this with a single word!). So after they understood my parents started to talk to him in Skype and they met in him such a kind and loving person that they accept us as a couple and want to meet him in futur! This is more than I ever hoped for! :) So to these people in a LDR I just want to say I know that it isn’t always easy and the times can get rough and complicated, but there is always a way if you have trust in your love! Just keep working hard and you are able to overcome all this obstacles. I know it takes time and sometimes the feeling to be apart is killing you, but one day you can close the distance and then it will be worth it! Best wishes and good luck for everyone!

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