Anonymous said:
I've been with him for months and months now, and I'm so totally in love - we've never met irl as we live in different countries. We argue often, they are mostly my fault as I have anxiety and tend to worry about everything and anything. But what bothers me is after a big arguement he will tell me he has fell out of love with me, and it's happened like 5 times now, I have no clue what to do.. We normally just keep talking till he 'falls' back in love. But it hurts so much, what do I do?
As I see it, that’s not okay for him to do. You dont fall in and out of love that easy. At all. And honestly. I dont think he really loves you
Anonymous said:
I've been with him for months and months now, and I'm so totally in love - we've never met irl as we live in different countries. We argue often, they are mostly my fault as I have anxiety and tend to worry about everything and anything. But what bothers me is after a big arguement he will tell me he has fell out of love with me, and it's happened like 5 times now, I have no clue what to do.. We normally just keep talking till he 'falls' back in love. But it hurts so much, what do I do?
As I see it, that’s not okay for him to do. You dont fall in and out of love that easy. At all. And honestly. I dont think he really loves you
Anonymous said:
I've been in a relationship with this guy (he lives in Italy, I live in England) for months now, I would say about 6 or 7 months. I'm completely and utterly in love with him, and I've never been in love before. Everything's great though.. Except that he's 18 (I'm 15) And he's okay with the age difference but I keep thinking about it, I have no doubts about our relationship but I need advice.. Is our age difference okay? Or should we wait?
how you feel about each other is more important than two numbers will ever be.
Anonymous said:
I've been in a relationship with this guy (he lives in Italy, I live in England) for months now, I would say about 6 or 7 months. I'm completely and utterly in love with him, and I've never been in love before. Everything's great though.. Except that he's 18 (I'm 15) And he's okay with the age difference but I keep thinking about it, I have no doubts about our relationship but I need advice.. Is our age difference okay? Or should we wait?
how you feel about each other is more important than two numbers will ever be.
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Anonymous said:
legit basically live in the same places as your last anon and their partner. my bf is in sydney, i'm not in, but am right next to nyc. we've been together two years, and anon I promise the kilometers don't matter. Cherish his voice and the sound of his sleep because it will get you through each day, and each day you'll be closer to being together in person. And those moments just I mentioned will make the miles seem to disappear even when you're far apart, i promise.
Anonymous said:
legit basically live in the same places as your last anon and their partner. my bf is in sydney, i'm not in, but am right next to nyc. we've been together two years, and anon I promise the kilometers don't matter. Cherish his voice and the sound of his sleep because it will get you through each day, and each day you'll be closer to being together in person. And those moments just I mentioned will make the miles seem to disappear even when you're far apart, i promise.
Anonymous said:
I live in Sydney, Australia and he lives in NYC. We skype every night before he goes to sleep, because he says it sounds like I'm there next to him, but it's not really, is it? We're still 10,000 kilometres apart..
Skyping is really the closest thing any of us have, cherish it!
Anonymous said:
I live in Sydney, Australia and he lives in NYC. We skype every night before he goes to sleep, because he says it sounds like I'm there next to him, but it's not really, is it? We're still 10,000 kilometres apart..
Skyping is really the closest thing any of us have, cherish it!
a-disorderly-disorder said:
My name is Liz and I am in a long distance relationship. Alisha lives in Chicago and I live in the eastern part of Canada. It sucks, but we're making it work. Anyways, I'm sending her a letter with cute things in it... but I don't know what to send. It can only be an envelope, so I can't put clothing in.. I just want to make it special, I guess.
friendship bracelets are always fun and inexpensive! You can find tons of patterns online and usually buy string cheap at a local craft store, even Walmart. On your handwritten letter spray your perfume, give it a kiss with lipstick. Maybe send some old goofy photos of you as a kid. You could make a keychain with the miles between or your anniversary date with beads, also inexpensive. Whatever it is, let it come from the heart! followers any other tips/advice?
a-disorderly-disorder said:
My name is Liz and I am in a long distance relationship. Alisha lives in Chicago and I live in the eastern part of Canada. It sucks, but we're making it work. Anyways, I'm sending her a letter with cute things in it... but I don't know what to send. It can only be an envelope, so I can't put clothing in.. I just want to make it special, I guess.
friendship bracelets are always fun and inexpensive! You can find tons of patterns online and usually buy string cheap at a local craft store, even Walmart. On your handwritten letter spray your perfume, give it a kiss with lipstick. Maybe send some old goofy photos of you as a kid. You could make a keychain with the miles between or your anniversary date with beads, also inexpensive. Whatever it is, let it come from the heart! followers any other tips/advice?
Hello fellow ldr loves, My boyfriend and I recently became a ldr. (I even had to teach him what ldr stood for!!) Its been tough on the both of us and we’re getting used to it. The distance may not be extreme but as we all know, any distance is enough to make it hurt a little. We recently made an Instagram for our relationship and would love the support! The username is : @cv_to_sf
Thanks so much! xoxo
Anonymous said:
Next week I go to see my boyfriend for the fifth time. He lives in NY state and I live in the UK. Last time I passed through Philadelphia airport, I was kind of grilled on the spot at immigration and passport control. The officer said that because I had been visiting so often (once every 6-8 weeks, for approx. 6 nights each time), officials would start to think I was trying to move there and just turn me away next time I visit. Now I'm PETRIFIED of being refused entry - any advice? I'm scared.
Take a deep breath. It will be okay, I personally have never dealt with international affairs. I would bring proof that it is just a visit. These girls are an international ldr and might be better able to answer your question. I hope everything goes smoothly! Sorry I couldn’t be more of a help!
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Anonymous said:
Next week I go to see my boyfriend for the fifth time. He lives in NY state and I live in the UK. Last time I passed through Philadelphia airport, I was kind of grilled on the spot at immigration and passport control. The officer said that because I had been visiting so often (once every 6-8 weeks, for approx. 6 nights each time), officials would start to think I was trying to move there and just turn me away next time I visit. Now I'm PETRIFIED of being refused entry - any advice? I'm scared.
Take a deep breath. It will be okay, I personally have never dealt with international affairs. I would bring proof that it is just a visit. These girls are an international ldr and might be better able to answer your question. I hope everything goes smoothly! Sorry I couldn’t be more of a help!
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Sophie & Sam
Hey there!
My name is Sophie and I’m in a LDR for almost 2 years now. I met my love in summer 2011 in my holidays in Egypt. His name is Sam and he is just the most amazing man in the world!! We love eachother so much and work both hard for it to make it work. Since we are a couple we are fighting against many prejudices. My family and my friends here in Germany think very bad about egyptian men. They told me to stop keeping contact with him and they didnt want to give us a chance to meet again. But we kept contact secretly. Had Skype dates, long phone calls, talked in Facebook so we made it work! And we both worked harder, saved money and after my 18th birthday I finally was able to buy a flight ticket to Egypt! Yeah. We really didn’t believe that we could fiiiiinally see eachother again against all the obstacles and prejudices. And in february 2013 so before few weeks I was with him in Egypt! It was the most beautiful time for us and the feeling to be back in his arms can never be compared to anything else. It’s just where I belong! So the time passed too fast and I had to go again back to Germany and there my family who were all really upset waited for me. But they saw that I was happier than ever before and they gave me a chance to show them pictures and videos of Sam and me. And they really understood that we are in love. That he doesn’t want my money or a visa to leave Egypt (he never asked me for this with a single word!). So after they understood my parents started to talk to him in Skype and they met in him such a kind and loving person that they accept us as a couple and want to meet him in futur! This is more than I ever hoped for! :) So to these people in a LDR I just want to say I know that it isn’t always easy and the times can get rough and complicated, but there is always a way if you have trust in your love! Just keep working hard and you are able to overcome all this obstacles. I know it takes time and sometimes the feeling to be apart is killing you, but one day you can close the distance and then it will be worth it! Best wishes and good luck for everyone!